Adding a little kink!

Okay rough sex might get yoj thinking uh oh!  And take it from me that it can be an uhoh! We had terrible kinky sex in the beginning I ended up in tears and he felt so bad!  I have been taking notes on how to add a little kink but keep it real!  We all  can enjoy kinky sex the first thing is get the kids outta the house! 
Start off slow.  Bitting at nipples and lips can set the mood.   The  add in some scratching!   I find starting under his ass and drag you nails up his back and continue right to his lips like you want to kiss him BUT DON’T!  Part of the fun of being frisky is to keep a distance.   Its all about the tease!  If its your first time adding the kinky to the bedroom take it a little slow.   Maybe even start off with massaging him and up the anti 
All you have to do is get the mood set thst you and him are sex toys and once you both get off you can cuddle again.  The tricky part is keeping the mood and if fails ghe first time laugh it off there can always be room for another  try! 

LETS DO IT DO IT DO IT

Music!   I love music there is nothing better then some good music while trying to settle into the mood.  Call me crazy but I still have a CD PLAYER! I love it I keep a CD to sleep with and yatata I know everyone else in the world has play lists but that is besides the point any who

Just have a night where you change positions after each song (pick shorter songs) it is fun! 
Put a coule joke songs in there too like big butts or x gonna give it to you or purple pills anything like that is fun then when you hear the songs  in public all you have to do is give him a wink and you will have his attention!

The Night Watch 18+

Okay  so it took me quite a while to open up to watching porn with my partner but since we started its a fun thing we do once and awhile!  I know at first I was kind of scared of being compared to the girls on the screen but once l saw my first porno I realized the whole point is to be sexy. There are so many types and categories and videos you will always have lots of selection!
There is down right dirty stuff thats fun to watch because you know you will never do it and then there is stuff that just sets your mood. 
Whats is fun is sometimes I will leave a movie on so when he looks at the device he ggets a little shock and knows what I want.  Sometimes he wants me to watch to get me more into the night and I find that super sexy! 
I hope you find a way to get your sex on on in front of some porn mom to mom it really adds to sex time when your kid free for the night! 

To See or not to See

So I bought a blindfold. ?. ? For like $1
Dunno so much if I was going to like it… Then I decided to try it out!  So all I did was got naked put on the blind fold and waited!  The anticipation was exciting and my lover played right into it I love him! 
Its fun because you become very aware of his every movement!
It is fun too because sounds become a lot more vivid!
So needless to say cheap fun sex tip #3 blind folded!

SEXPLORATION

So sex is fun, romantic,  calorie burner and stress reliever!  But Where to sex is the question!? I mean like I posted earlier tripping over toys while trying to get it on is not exactly a turn on.  So here is some ideas to turn a home into a romantic place for sex!
Start with the BEDROOM.. Now I know you are likely rolling your eyes at me right now because I feel the same by the time I hit the bedroom my thought is sleep.  And if by chance I get the feeling to get it on the lights are off and the sheets are over us! 
But the bedroom!  The bedroom is your safest space!
MAKE A SEX KIT!  I grabed a shoe box and just started adding to it.  I have a nice silk dress in there, I used to have handcuffs (broke em) chocolates, feathers, red lipstick, lube, condoms or anything that adds a little pazzaz into your love life.  Keep it right close to your bed I keep mine right under my side of the bed.  Here is the other trick! Keep it plain.  Make sure the box blends into just ordinary items in your room or else you might have unwanted explorers in it!
KITCHEN – There is so much possibilities in the kitchen I could write a book on kitchen sex!  Its a dangerous space.  Spend sometime in your kitchen dreaming about sex then grab some kind of tape and mark a X let your partner know that X marks the spot and talk about the things you want XXX on the spot.  When we started passion in the kitchen it was super hot!  I found a space to hide and suck while he looked like he was making salad it was fun!  And easy to get out of incase the kids got curious of something in the kitchen! Ha ha!
BATHROOM I’m currently living in a house where the bathroom is in desperate need of a reno.  However it has not made it into our budget yet! We have not found anything sex about the bathroom.  I love sex in the shower but our shower is nasty the best sex we have had in there is with the lights on and him behind me in front of the mirror!   If you have not had sex infront of a mirror put you big girl panties on and do it!  Especially a full body mirror even if you are not comfortable with how you look watch him!  When you are lacking for turn ons another time remind eachother of the mirror sex! Which brings me to the

Open the door if you dare

Entrance some of you have space for the dirty here some dont!  This is where you may have a full body mirror too! I used to I kept a knee high jacket in the entry closet and every once and awhile once the baby was asleep I would gently rap at the door and ask for directions to bliss! Usually I wait untill commercial break to knock but that brings me to the LIVING ROOM or what I call the loving room ohh if couches could talk I would have to pay mine to shut it! Dream about a new position on the couch then make it happen! Keep thinking about a new way to show your passion and soon you will make it happen!
Anywhere else?

Getting Sexy

So we all know that I feel before kids sex is easy! So my posts unless otherwise stated are simply once title is Mom!

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women have their image of being sexy.  Some woman like certain parts of their body others like how they look at different activities (workout, shower, morning, before bed ect.) Personally I feel my ass is sexy I like wearing black silk that is open in the back down to my ass especially at night.

Getting in the mood can be hard but I have some tips! We will not go over details in this post but next time your tripping over toys all over the floor while trying to get in the mood center your mind to one of these ideas

Role Play – pretending to be anybody you want can help.  For me the idea of just having no strings attached helps me to have a more open mind.  Playing the cleaning lady or the mistress or a sexy one night stand opens you up to being more in the mood because it gives you a mission.

Fantasy – women are beautiful they offer a lot more beauty than a man with a dick and two balls.  Talking about how you want your body touched and moved (even if impossible) can really turn you both on. Talking about what you would to a third person like another female can be super hot too!

Strip – Take em all off like no one else is on the planet!  

Giggle – sometimes just pulling a LOL can turn you both on! Just bring fun back into sex is a key point!

These are just some no prep great ideas to make the mood sexy in an instant!

 

The Dirty Little Secret

Getting pregnant BEST SEX EVER! Ouou I cherish those memories of hot sex everywhere anytime and for no reason! Sex before Mum life is perfect!  (If it’s not get it there quick!) Once you’re the Mum sex can be a chore to keep your SANITY! Stepping over kids toys while trying to have a make out session can be a total turn off! Not to mention your first thought is “damn it I told the kids to pick these up!” If you have had a c section I am with ya!  You feel nasty after and you wanna cuddle but you don’t wanna be touched.  NOW listen if you’re a man reading this I don’t mind but don’t get offended or anything this is just a Mama’s opinion!

So point being this blog is about getting turned on, DIRTY and getting some loving even if you’re a mummy all the rest of the time! It’s Mummysex!

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